Sometimes I think the secret to enjoying life is not to take myself too seriously. This is not something that comes naturally to most of us–I don’t know at what stage of our life we lose our ability to be playful and to see how whimsical life can be. Surely, transitions from childhood to adulthood make it easier to be serious. We leave college and all of a sudden we have to be “grown-ups.” We must be responsible.
Along the way, we lose our ability to play. When do we become so self-important that we cannot take a moment to laugh at ourselves or enjoy the moment without an agenda? I tell people that I am the definition of “high maintenance.” This is part of not taking myself too seriously…I do realize that I still need to have control, but I also realize that I cannot control much more than how I respond to what life sends my way.
In The Art of Possibility, author Benjamin Zander talks about “Rule Number 6″…this is the rule that says “Do not take yourself so seriously”….what a great gift to remind ourselves, even when we are in the midst of difficult transitions, that if we enforce Rule Number 6, life will be full of wonder.
Life is Amazing! Live Well.
Life and transitions coach